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Feel Like You've Tried Everything For Your Marriage, But Nothing Seems to Work?

What If You Could Get a Happy, Healthy Marriage  - Even If They Don't Want to Change

Here’s How I Use a Powerful New Technique to Resolve Hurts, Build Intimacy, Feel Acknowledged and Loved For Who You Are to create a Passionate Marriage and Peaceful Home.


From: Chris Parsons

I know it's going to sound crazy, but everything you've heard about building a Happy, Healthy Marriage is wrong...

(And I know because I tried all the "common advice" when I was struggling in my own marriage).

You might think you have to work on your communication, or beg and punish your spouse to get them to care about your hurts and dissatisfaction...

That's actually a mistake. I'm about to explain why. Plus, I'm going to give you the way to create the marriage of your dreams so that you can finally feel the joy and harmony in your home that you dreamed of when you first got married...

I started out coaching married individuals with a spouse that had "checked out" and wasn't interested in working on things, and through that process, I found that the typical approach of working on the marriage was all wrong...

Because I was able to create complete marriage transformations by working on the PERSON. This is a radically new approach to drastically improving your marriage...

And I'm going to show you how to do it simply by:

Taking Personal Responsibility to start creating the change you want to see, with or without your spouse's acknowledgment that things need to change. This changed everything for me and my marriage 8 years ago...

My marriage, 8 years ago:
 
I loved my wife. I thought the world of her. But I secretly kind of hated her. I was hurt and resentful of feeling like my needs didn't matter, my happiness wasn't important, constantly being torn down, everything and everyone else being more of a priority than me, and not valued or appreciated for anything I did... 

My wife felt unhappy, guilty for constantly feeling disappointed and even disgusted by me, like I didn't listen to her or her feelings didn't matter to me, and ultimately unfulfilled by our marriage. Things got pretty toxic with lots of arguing and mean words said...

In a nutshell, we both felt hurt, frustrated, disconnected, and angry with each other...

Thankfully, now... 

I finally feel and can see that my wife thinks highly of me. I feel appreciated for what I do and valued for who I am. She believes in me and encourages me. My wife finally feels heard, instead of over-powered, like she's free of being suffocated by me constantly needing things from her, has that emotional attraction from when we were dating back, and a sense of fulfillment she'd longed for...

We're deeply passionate for each other and the life we're building together, and have peace instead of resentment in our home...

I did something so simple it's hard to believe. I stopped blaming my spouse and started taking personal responsibility to create the change...

The result? A marriage that's everything I dreamed it could be.

Since then, we both feel acknowledged, all of our hurts are quickly resolved, we're more in love than ever (even with four young kids), both our needs are met, there's passion and our sex life has never been better!

My latest book, It Starts With You, reveals every step of the process.

Inside, I'll share the secret to both getting your needs met, aligning incentives to bring about the best version OF each other FOR each other, and resolving hurts I use to get both spouses on the same team without compromising...

I'll also share how I rebuild attraction and love without feeling like "work." 

The book also includes case studies of couples I helped coach to transform their marriages detailing the problems they faced and how we conquered them, challenges I faced in my own marriage, raw, unfiltered truth about what causes strain in marriage, and many more lessons that you can put into practice starting TODAY to re-ignite the spark and remove the emotional distance in your marriage...

I wrote this book to help you heal and elevate your marriage by getting your spouse to acknowledge the problems, care about solving them, and be invested in your marriage's success...

And if you want more intimacy (both emotional & physical), hurts resolved, or more peace in your home, It Starts With You can become your step-by-step guide to accomplishing that, rather than ending up divorced or in a marriage that makes you miserable...

This is the very first time I've revealed many of the methods I have used to create a passionate marriage and peaceful home. You’ll only find them in this book, It Starts With You...

At 163 pages, it takes less than an afternoon to read but will be the best few hours you ever spend to create a life with more joy and harmony...



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  • A Digital Copy of "It Starts With You"
  • BONUS #1: A Decision-Making Worksheet to Determine if Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For
  • BONUS #2: What to do RIGHT NOW if your spouse is distant or checked out
  • BONUS #3: Simple Solution to “He tries to Solve Her Problems, She Just Wants Him to Listen”


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Bonus #1:

Decision-Making Worksheet to Determine if Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For

Here’s How People on the Brink of Divorce Are Using a Decision-Making Worksheet to Determine if the Marriage is Worth Saving.
Inside The Happy Healthy Marriage Reset, you’ll discover how we transform and elevate marriages. You’ll see how our personal empowerment method works in my marriage and for our clients, and we’ll provide case-study breakdowns of problems married couples face and how to overcome them.

If you are considering Divorce or Separation, Do you want to know whether your marriage is worth saving?  

In this Decision-Making Worksheet, I’ll show you how a Professional Marriage Coach approaches the decision.

We’ll look at the problems, the opportunities, the pro's, the con's, and identify the most important factors to your decision so that you can feel confident in knowing what the next step is for you...

You’ll see how our method compares to other “decision making criteria” out there so you can determine if our model is the best fit for your goals.


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Bonus #2:

What To Do RIGHT NOW If Your Spouse is Distant or "Checked Out"

How I Restore Love in 1 week Using the "Fishing Hook" Method
Inside this bonus training, What To Do RIGHT NOW If Your Spouse is Distant or "Checked Out", you’ll discover the process we use to get your spouse invested in your marriage's success.

Using the "Fishing Hook" Method is a very different process than you might be used to seeing.

You've probably tried pursuing them harder, or maybe the opposite end of "no contact".  
 
In this training, you’ll get a better understanding of how neither of those strategies are the real key, and what you can do starting TODAY (and if you find yourself here, this book and bonus training should be a priority - don't wait if your spouse is distant!)

You’ll discover how the "Fishing Hook" Method gets them back on the line, biting the bate, and getting reeled in…

...without them fighting against you. 

Here’s the best part: You don’t even need to have a "checked out" or spiritually distant spouse to learn and apply the lessons.

As long as you’re interested in creating a marriage that brings joy to both you and your spouse, you can start using the "Fishing Hook" Method.


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Simple Solution to "He Tries to Solve Her Problems, She Just Wants Him to Listen"

Discover the secret belief-shift that helps couples quickly and easily resolve the age-old problem of frustration when a Wife wants to vent to a good listener and a Husband wants to solve her problems...
The next bonus training you’ll receive when you purchase It Starts With You is my Simple Solution to "He tries to solve her problems, she just wants him to listen".

In this video training you’ll discover the small belief shift that forever ends the all-too-common marital issue of wives not feel heard because their husband wants to solve their problems, and husbands feeling frustrated that they have to hear about problems that their wife doesn't want solved.

This framework is how we consistently take this "communication problem" and turn it into a healing, spiritual intimacy building talk that makes both husbands and wives happier.

Discover a new perspective of how to look at this problem, it's root, and it's natural, obvious conclusion that doesn't rely on compromise or putting up with something you don't enjoy. 

Not every marriage has this problem, but it is VERY common to varying degrees. Even if you haven't struggled with it in your marriage, this new understanding will allow you to truly appreciate your spouse's unique tendencies.

Get this simple solution, use it with the method you’re about to discover in the book, or use it by itself to quickly solve a frequent source of frustration in marriage.


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It Starts With You is just $4.99 and you’ll get an immediate digital download plus all 3 of the bonuses listed above at no additional cost.

Order your digital copy today and get the exact method I’ve used in my own marriage as well as clients' to create a Passionate Marriage & Peaceful Home.


You've Never Heard a Marriage Counselor Say This Before... It Only Takes ONE to Transform a Marriage.



If you’re ready to try the method we use to build intimacy and trust while restoring your marriage to better than it's ever been without worrying about wondering if there's even a point...

Having a marriage that makes others envious and beg to know your secret...

Getting all of your needs met with a spouse that values and appreciates you...

Finding more success and fulfillment in life with the help of a supportive, encouraging spouse...

...and eliminating the cold shoulder, pouting, toxic arguments, and bitterness that builds up so that you can finally relax and enjoy each other again.

It Starts With You can show you exactly how.

At the very core of this method are these realities:

-> You must own your power to start creating the change, because waiting on your spouse to change makes you feel helpless and powerless, leaving you STUCK.

-> You can get your spouse to care and value you and the marriage.

-> You make sure you both feel heard, valued, and acknowledged for who you are.

I believe this is the best way to resolve hurts and heal wounds because it avoids relying on your spouse to take initiative and empowers you to change things, even if your spouse isn't on board (yet!). 

If you’re ready to stop feeling angry and bitter toward your spouse (and them feeling that way toward you)...

Click “YES!” below, and let me show you our unique approach so that you can elevate your marriage to new heights.




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Here’s a Look at What You’ll Discover When You Get Your Digital Copy of 'It Starts With You'…


  • How We Completely Resolve Hurts​ - no matter how deeply they've been buried or how long they've been festering.
  • Case-Study Examples showing you how we use this method for individuals and couples including an in-depth look at the types of problems we think It Starts With You is best suited to solve.
  • The Exact Path We Follow to take toxic, mean marriages to passionate, peaceful lovers in just a few weeks.
  • ​Creating Attraction Overnight - Many of our clients have gone from a "dead bedroom" with sex only a couple times a year to not being able to keep their hands off each other and more pleasure and intimacy than they've had since they first got married.
  • ​The Success Formula - Using the secret "Success Formula" is how I stumbled my way through figuring all of this out in my own marriage and practically guarantees results.
  • ​The Reason We’re Able to Transform Marriages Even If Your Spouse Isn't Onboard and a look inside how you can get your spouse on your team.
  • ​Peace and Harmony in As Little As 3 Days - Get the process we use to make it happen and see why all it takes are a few small shifts in how you handle things.
  • ​“Love on Demand” - How I’m easily able to follow this proven, repeatable system to create on-demand love for myself and my clients without having to worry about my wife faking it or just trying to appease me.
  • ​​All While Progressing at Work And With Kids ​so that when energy is applied to the marriage it isn't "stolen" from other places it's needed.
  • ​The 10 Red Flags You're Headed for Divorce and what to do RIGHT NOW if you are seeing the warning signs.
  • ​The 8 Signs of Low Self Worth: An in-depth look at how low self worth affects marriages and how to raise your self worth starting TODAY.
  • ​The Problem With Advice​ (what most giving marriage advice get wrong) - Why we use guidance to embrace your feelings and challenge beliefs instead of giving action-level advice then leaving the rest up to you.
  • ​Why Personal Responsibility Works and why you won’t need to beg, plead, or punish your spouse into changing.
  • ​Marriage Counseling Hasn't Worked - Learn a new process and why a majority of couples who see marriage counselors say their marriage is WORSE OFF afterwards.
  • ​Lessons From a Couple that went from Sex Twice/Year to Twice/Week - Find out what I used to reconnect a couple married 20+ years who had grown apart.
  • ​Men's vs Women's Needs, why they are different, how to get your own needs met and meet your partners.
  • ​The Way to Get Your Spouse to Change - Take a close look at how you have changed your spouse, how you want to change them, and exactly what to do.
  • ​Get on the Same Team - Learn how to get on the same team as your spouse, so that you are both working towards the same things - together.
  • ​Raw Truth - You need to see what's really going on in your marriage and what's really causing the problems in order to make smart changes.
  • ​Struggling to Solve the Wrong Problems? Most couples waste 80% of their efforts solving problems that don’t matter. The included self-assessments help you better determine where your time and effort should be spent.
  • ​The Reason People Think You CAN'T Change Your Spouse - If you've ever been told or believed you can't change your spouse, it's because of THIS specific technique you were using (which doesn't work!)
  • ​How Men & Women's Differences Compliment Each Other​ - When you don't understand and value each other's differences, you feel constantly frustrated. Learn the key
It Starts With You contains everything you’ll need to understand and implement this method (and a bit more). Every marriage is unique, but these lessons apply universal concepts.

The price of It Starts With You is just $4.99.

Your digital copy of It Starts With You will be delivered to your inbox right away so you can start discovering how to restore or elevate your marriage.

Your purchase today also includes the 3 bonuses at no extra cost.

I know this seems like information overload, but I’ve done my best to organize It Starts With You so you’ll be able to immediately gain new insights you can rapidly apply…

...while having a blueprint you can follow to resolve old hurts, restore intimacy and attraction, finally feel valued, and have a marriage others envy.

I’m also including the 3 bonuses above at NO COST with your order today.

These bonus courses and workshops are designed to compliment what you’ll learn inside It Starts With You.
Chris Parsons
I Empower Marriage Transformation
Thanks for taking the time to read this far.

I’ve been working with married individuals since 2017.

Here are a few of the problems I've helped clients solve in their marriage:
  • Toxic, Heated Arguments
  • "Dead Bedroom" (sexless marriage)
  • Feeling Unappreciated and Not Valued
  • ​Bitterness and Resentfulness
  • ​Feeling Inadequate
  • Broken Trust
  • Emotional Walls
  • ​Critical Spouse
  • ​And many, many more.
Back in 2017, I started helping individuals who were struggling in their marriage...

Telling them what I had done to fix things in their own marriage.

That taught me about the level where changes in marriage really come from and crystallized the process for radically transforming marriages...



Turning a Small Shift into a Total Marriage Transformation



After helping married individuals, instead of couples, I found that it only takes ONE to start the change...

I intuitively knew that, because I had started the change in my marriage, but it really showed the power of taking personal responsibility...

I was never only concerned with my own happiness in marriage. I knew that if my wife wasn't happy, any happiness I found for myself would be short-lived, and that I couldn't make her happy without also valuing my own happiness. But it was really embracing personal empowerment that changed everything for me...

Almost every aspect of my marriage improved after embracing my own power and responsibility to create the change.

Over time, I’ve worked to perfect the process, identifying every key ingredient to a Happy, Healthy Marriage and finding the special mechanism that makes it work...

What I can promise is that you’ll discover take-away insights, methods, and strategies that you can immediately implement into your marriage…

...and you’ll discover an approach to using personal empowerment to start the change in your marriage even if your spouse doesn't want to change...

See you on the inside,

Chris “The Marriage Whisperer” Parsons






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